“I earnestly call upon pastors and the whole community of the faithful to help the divorced and with solicitous care, to make sure that they do not consider themselves as separated from the Church… Let the Church pray for them, encourage them and show herself a merciful mother and thus sustain them in faith and hope.” -Pope John Paul II, On the Family, #84
“Nothing – not even divorce or death – can place limits on God’s love.” -USCCB, Follow the Way of Love, pg. 5
Things to Know About Divorce and Annulments
- Divorced/remarried Catholics are not excommunicated.
- Annulments do not cost thousands of dollars.
- Someone married for a long time can get an annulment.
- Someone with children can get an annulment.
- Annulments do not take years to process and do not have to be processed in Rome.
- Your “ex” does not need to cooperate in the annulment process
Things to Know About Divorce and Parish Life
- Separated/divorced Catholics are welcome at Mass and Church activities.
- Separated/divorced Catholics can be sponsors at Baptism and Confirmation.
- Separated/divorced Catholics can receive the sacraments of Eucharist and Reconciliation.
- Separated/divorced Catholics can have their children baptized and receive other sacraments.
The St. Raymond Nonnatus Foundation: We help families affected by divorce and separation through prayerful accompaniment and support groups.
Adult Children of Divorce Support Group, on-line meeting held every month the LAST THURSDAY of the month at 8 p.m. ET. Please join the meeting from your computer, tablet or smartphone. https://global.gotomeeting.com/join/598066325 You can also dial in using your phone. United States: +1 (571) 317-3112 Access Code: 598-066-325 New to GoToMeeting? Get the app now and be ready when your first meeting starts: https://global.gotomeeting.com/install/598066325
Families/individuals affected by Divorce and Separation, on-line meeting held every month the FIRST TUESDAY of the month at 8 pm. Please join the meeting from your computer, tablet or smartphone. https://global.gotomeeting.com/join/668359061 You can also dial in using your phone. United States: +1 (312) 757-3121 Access Code: 668-359-061
Separated Faithful: Divorced or separated Catholics who remain faithful to marriage. Catholics who were reluctantly divorced or separated can continue to fulfill your marriage mission – to sanctify yourself and your spouse. Discuss the seven stages of the repeating process from the book, “The Gift of Self, A Spiritual Companion for Separated and Divorced Faithful to the Sacrament of Marriage.” See book review on USSCCB. Conference phone call, second-Mondays monthly, at 9 pm. Contact MaryOfCana@chaosmt.net, with your name, parish, city.
In-Person Support Groups:
Separated and Divorced Catholic (SDC) support groups are peer ministry programs which offer emotional and spiritual support for Catholics who are going through, or who have already experienced, separation or divorce. SDC support groups seek to provide information and resources which assist members to accept their present situation and to prepare for the future. Meetings take place at parish-based sites throughout the archdiocese.
Catholic’s Divorce Survival Guide The Catholic’s DIVORCE SURVIVAL weekly parish program presents the Church’s loving wisdom to guide you past the pain. For true healing, we point you to the Sacraments, where you’ll encounter Christ—with all His love and mercy–in a deeply personal way. And that’s the REALLY good news. If you are interested in starting this program in your parish, please contact Steve Bozza, Office for Life and Family firstname.lastname@example.org 215-587-5661
Divorce and Beyond Divorce and Beyond is a program designed to help separated and divorced persons to gain a perspective on their situation and begin anew. An easy to follow leader’s manual helps non-professionals present the program effectively. Please visit the website for the Ministry of the North American Conference of Divorced Catholics for materials and information. Please contact Steve Bozza, Office for Life and Family email@example.com 215-587-5661
The following is our most recent listing of Separated/Divorced Catholics (SDC) groups:
Divorce and Beyond
St. Bede the Venerable 1071 Holland Rd. Holland, PA 215-357-5720
Separated/Divorced Support Groups:
St. Patrick’s Hall 20th & Locust Streets Philadelphia (215) 238-0162 or firstname.lastname@example.org
St. Joseph 500 Woodlawn Avenue Collingdale 1st Monday; 7:30PM 610-461-9351